Sunday, September 03, 2006

The Beginning of the End...as we know it.

There is a point in life where things culminate in a trainwreck of life. No, I don't really know what that means but that's what you would see if you were to look inside my head right now. It kind of makes sense but not really. Got it...

What's in a name. It's loaded. It can't sound like or rhyme with anything that will get her made fun of in elementary in middle school. It can't be the same name as the kid that had lice in 3rd grade or was suspended for drugs in high school. It can't be so many things. The nickname is just as bad. Do you give her a name that can be shortened to a cute little nickname like; Em, Kay, Shan, Mac, Shell, Jax, Molls... There is also the issue of calling her "your little princess" or "sweetpea" or any other little animal nickname. The next thing you know, the baby's whole room will be full of whatever nickname she has. the cycle is endless.

The question of the month Are you ready? What does that mean. Am I ready for what? Yes, we have most of the stuff but we are no means ready. Are we ready for the dirty diapers, first word, first tooth, day of school, class project, sports game, tear, boyfriend, dance, heartbreak, recital, speech, musical, art project, braces, prom, car, graduation, serious boyfriend, serious heartbreak, college, graduation, wedding, walking her down the isle...really, am I ready?

That's just the tip of the iceberg.
I need a nap.

2 comments:

Abby said...

I can guarantee that nobody is every "ready". I cried my eyes out last week going through Ashlyn's outgrown clothes...I'm not ready for her to make the transition to size 18 months, much less her first day of kindergarten or her wedding day! You'll never be "ready" but God will prepare you as much as possible and the two of you will be fantastic parents as long as you keep Him in front!
Abby

Anonymous said...

A thought from a defeated PSU fan (sadly not surprised, though still loyal)...
Well, I'm not lettting Chris read this, because we just heard our baby's heart beat for the first time on Friday and he all but hypervenhilated. Although now he insists he's just VERY excited, it was funny to watch. My advice as a novice is to just try to prepare for the first month. Nobody's asking you if you're ready for your 50th birthday. Why? Because it's just absurd. How could you possibly be ready for that? Shoot for getting through October. You guys will be great. You're "HER" parents, and she loves you already. No worries.
Min